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Woman vs. Woman #nomorecomparisons

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Let’s have a small girl talk, ladies. One thing that can easily still both your joy and peace for that day is comparison. Yes, we have seen this thing get ugly and even turn some women into “fame-seeking”, “shallow beauties”, and “money-hungry vultures”. It seems that society pumps this poison into our social circles with other women that evolves into this circle of “sabotage”. Yes, I heard women make statements such as “It’s hard to be friends with other women”, “Women are so competitive with each other”, “All women do is gossip”, or “I can’t trust beautiful women around my boyfriend/husband”. All of those statements reveal a lack of security, because if truth be told, a good majority of us base our womanhood off external things. We have to look the best. We have to have the “picture perfect relationship”. Our social media has to paint this picture of glamour or perfection. We have to always be the center of attention or have to outdo everyone in everything. BUT….What’s wrong with “being authentic”?

Ladies. I have no problem with you looking cute. I have no problem with you taking care of yourself. I definitely have no issue with you pursing your goals…..(go head girl!). I have a problem when comparison is introduced into the picture. You are unique. God is waiting to see what are we going to make of the life that He gave us individually. There is no need for comparison. There is no room for jealousy. Envy will not control me. When you start to focus on the giftings and the beautiful traits within you, you start to see others as a potential “compliment to your life” rather than “competition”. I say “potential” because I believe in finding people that “fit where you are going in life”. This does not mean that you have to be nasty or mistreat those that are not in close fellowship with you, but you recognize that some people will not walk with you in certain seasons of your life and you must peacefully move on. So…drop the hate. Ladies, we need each other.

As always feel free to comment and share your thoughts! Happy Friday!

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Hi..My name is ShuCora Walker. No, I am not the woman in the picture, but my words represent people like her. People who love good conversations. People who enjoy sharing their life stories. People who tell the truth to not only inspire but to heal, learn, and grow. I have been writing since my preteen years and found peace in letting my heart bleed out on the paper through my words. The focus of my writing has always been to share stories of triumph, struggles, and faith because God is the reason why I write. I remember at one point that I wanted to take my life, but God deemed it not to be because He still had a purpose for my life. Now, I am using my words to share my life journey so others can learn from it. Yes, one day I plan to open up this platform to other writers so we can continue to learn from different experiences of life. So, this is a space for anyone seeking to live a life of real freedom and enjoy some good moments along the way…


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