Fear/Break Loose/

Inspiring and encouraging others to break free from what’s holding them back from a great and fulfilling life

What Do You See….(When Self-Reflection Goes Wrong)

I’m all for self-reflection, self-talk, and self-awareness because I do believe you need to have a healthy sense of who you are as an individual living in this crazy world. Sometimes all that “self this and that” can be rooted in deep lies. If I am basing who I am off what people think about me, then I am only seeing their opinions when I look in the mirror at myself. It’s heartbreaking to both see and hear a person’s self esteem being broken down to the core. It’s even sadder to witness individuals basing their whole identity off money, fame, status, and even relationships. We are more than stuff. We are more than our past baggage. We must be careful in how we handle ourselves. If majority of my “self talks and self reflections” are rooted in lies, then I will never have the right perspective of who I am. I rather based my identity in truth. The truth for my life comes from what God says about me because I know He doesn’t lie. Yes, this has been a battle because I understand how life can cause your self esteem and confidence to crumble but the truth is that I have been redeemed. Honestly, some of our self-awareness is rooted in how other people feel about us and we are changing our entire identity just to please them. I’m not saying that we should not be aware of how we make others feel through our own bad actions sometimes, but I should not be so pressed to fit in a box that some want me to stay in.

At the age of 33 (soon to be 34 next month!), I am coming into this stage of life where I want to just BE ME. I want to pursue the gifts that I have fully. I want to engage in the right community of individuals who are going in the same direction as I am. I no longer desire to live my life the way others want me to. God gave me freedom to pursue the path that was designed for me. This all starts with seeing myself differently.


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

About Me

Hi..My name is ShuCora Walker. No, I am not the woman in the picture, but my words represent people like her. People who love good conversations. People who enjoy sharing their life stories. People who tell the truth to not only inspire but to heal, learn, and grow. I have been writing since my preteen years and found peace in letting my heart bleed out on the paper through my words. The focus of my writing has always been to share stories of triumph, struggles, and faith because God is the reason why I write. I remember at one point that I wanted to take my life, but God deemed it not to be because He still had a purpose for my life. Now, I am using my words to share my life journey so others can learn from it. Yes, one day I plan to open up this platform to other writers so we can continue to learn from different experiences of life. So, this is a space for anyone seeking to live a life of real freedom and enjoy some good moments along the way…


%d bloggers like this: